
Carrie Yury
Larry Sultan, Dad on Bed, 1985
On the phone, after arranging to meet him I asked Larry, “How will I know you?”
“Oh, you’ll know me,” he said.
Larry Sultan looked like his dad. Sultan struggles with the similarities between his own life and that of his parents in his book Pictures from Home. The book’s underlying theme: his parent’s mortality, and also his own, was sadly underscored last year with Sultan’s passing.
When I see this picture, I see not only Irving Sultan, but also Larry Sultan sitting there on the bed. These images make me think about my own mother and father, my relationship to them as they age, the shifting burden of responsibility, the way family personalities, dramas, dynamics, and narratives that seem so big in one historical moment become fragile and almost precious as time passes. My mother turns 70 today, and my father is 82.
“I want my parents to live forever,” Larry Sultan wrote in Pictures from Home.
Me too.
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